I’m not sure if I’ve mentioned it on the blog, but Gareth and I started the Couch to 5k running program. You might remember me raving about it back in 2008, but the idea is that you gradually work your self up to running a full 5k.
We started doing the program because a few months ago, we were driving somewhere, and I saw this mom out running with her son. I thought to myself, “wow, that would be so cool to run with your son, I wish I could do that…” at that point it dawned on me that I CAN do that! Seeing as I have a ton of sons! LOL
Gareth has surprised me, I expected to sorta be dragging him along, trying to convince him to keep with it – but instead, he is just as jazzed up about it all as I am! Most of the time it is Gareth dragging ME out the door, and he wants to stick to every run, every time, which just makes me feel more enthusiastic about what we are doing. Plus, it is a great thing that we can do together just the two of us. Good for our bodies, but also for our bond. As Gareth is getting older, I’m trying to squeeze some real bonding types of activities into our lives… This way, when he’s 12, we’ll have at least some routines that keep us communicating.
So yes, Gareth was totally into the idea, and he was especially excited when I told him we could reward ourselves when we finish the first month’s worth of running. Well it’s taken us a whole lot more than an actual 4 weeks (doesn’t it always?), but we are getting out there as much as we can, and we’re up to running 5 minute intervals. Since we made it through week 4, Gareth has been excitedly waiting for our trip to the store to pick up “Pokemon Heart of Gold” (yeah, I don’t get pokemon either… but isn’t that always the case for the best kid things??) as his reward.
Gareth has been SO patient. Even last night he was saying, “Mom, if you’re tired we can wait to go.” That is when it dawned on me, Gareth sacrifices so much, so regularly, for this family. From giving up a coveted seat to one of his brothers, to getting up from what he’s doing to go “check on his brothers,” to trying to figure out what I might want or need and making sure I am taken care of. Gareth is such a little knight in shining armor, that sometimes I don’t even know how to express how grateful I am for him, and how amazing it is to be his mom.
By the time we were at the store, Gareth’s sheer enthusiasm had grown exponentially (and it was contagious). He could actually see the display from across the store. He got all silly and told me he could see it because it was “his destiny.” He was so cute, and I swear, he even kissed me on the cheek right there in the store. While we were diving home he told me that we’d better hurry home because he had the sudden “urge” to give me a hug…. and he did as soon as we got here.
Getting him that game was one of the most gratifying things ever. I’m proud of us for running, and he deserves it just on that level. But Gareth is so gracious, so caring. He is seriously the best big brother, he is such a gift of a son, and he is such a great little person. He deserved it on soooo many levels, and I’m really glad I was able to get him something he really wanted so much.
This week will bring more runs, and I know that this whole experience will be so great for both of us, but this morning, I can’t help but think just getting the game in itself was good for us. Gareth is an amazing kid, and I’m so pleased that I could, just this once, make it all about him.
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